Is Your Hobby Helping Or Hindering Your Family Life

Is Your Hobby Helping Or Hindering Your Family Life

Ask a room full of people what hobby they have and you will get as many answers as there are people. Others will confess that they don’t have a hobby. They probably do; but just don’t label it as such. By definition, a hobby is an activity or interest pursued outside one’s regular occupation and engaged in primarily for pleasure.

Whether stamp collecting, chat rooms, trains, soft ball, scrapbooking, golf, reading, painting, tap dancing, yard work, crafts, auto mechanics, music, hunting down garage sales, sewing, fishing, cooking, boating, furniture refinishing, javelin tossing or a plethora of other activities or interests the key element is balance. You must find balance between your family life and your extracurricular activities.

kiting-638191_640Too much of a good thing turns bad. Everyone should have an outlet and a special interest that they enjoy doing for themselves. Self indulgence, to a point, is quite healthy. Escaping from day to day grinds to take some time to devote to your special hobby or concentration is therapeutic. You’ve all heard, “if Mamma ain’t happy, no one’s happy.” It doesn’t matter if your role is father, mother, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, son, daughter, brother or sister, if you’re just going to work or school and have no real outside activities, you’re probably not always the most friendly person to be around.

Conversely, if you bury yourself and it seems to others that all you care about or all you ever want to do is bang on the drums all day, you’re setting yourself up or prolonging discontent. People deal with depression in many ways. Some sleep all the time. Others want to do nothing but read, read, read. Still others will spend hours upon hours downstairs building a bigger, faster widget, just to avoid the real cause of their frustrations. Hobbies are supposed to be a healthy outlet, not a catalyst to ignore issues that need addressing.

Likewise, hobbies can get very expensive. Sure snow mobiles, motorcycles and ski equipment are obviously expensive. But sometimes those seemingly low cost activities can add up. You start out with trying to budget for the monthly karate lessons. Then you need (or want) the gi, the uniform. Don’t forget about the protective sparring equipment. Perhaps you think you need to have a heavy bag or some shields to help you practice. Figure on $30-$50 per tournament that you enter. Of course there’s the uninsured medical and orthodontia costs to be calculated in as well. “Let’s see, do we pay the mortgage this month, so get that new helmet that you just have to have?”

If your hobby is doing more harm than good, if it’s dipping into the family budget and time allocation, more than you can or should be spending, it’s time to reevaluate. If you’re not doing something outside your standard occupation that you enjoy, it’s time to find something, for your and your family’s sake!

Time Management Tips For Those In The Travel Industry

Time Management Tips For Those In The Travel Industry

If you improve your time management, you can improve your travel experiences and your travel business operations. So enjoy this brief layover with some short success tips from travel pros who know that time management requires basic management skills as well as learning more about timing issues.

Take the Helm – Just as a good ship’s Captain takes charge of operations, you need to do so, too. No matter whether running your travel operations from out of your home or not, you still need to take charge. Plus it’s equally important to be enthusiastic about your choices and travel ideas, because if you do not enjoy what you’re doing you may either need a break – a travel break! – or to rethink your career strategy and what you’re doing right now. Pros know that the more enthusiastic you are, the more you put into your client packages of yourself and the more you can get out of them.

work-management-907669_640Decision-Making Skill – You also need to make educated, prompt, firm decisions. Yes, you can change your mind, from time to time, but take a stand and make a decision, right or wrong. Don’t let things get in the way and bog you down. Start by getting more organized with a good planning system like Franklin Covey’s planners and planning software, compatible with Outlook and handheld unit so that you can prioritize tasks and actually complete them in a timely manner.

Know that decision-making is a skill and it can be learned and improved upon, like using tools to help and taking time to learn from past decisions. And pros know that planned are most often the wisest.

Stay Informed – It’s no secret that everyone has the same number of hours in a day and that it’s what you do with them that counts. So do like the pros and study what they do. Find a mentor or coach. Keep up with the travel industry and work-at-home industry and any other fields of interest to learn about any changes and news that may help with your day-to-day operations.

And finally, go back over these basic guidelines to help ensure your own success with time management. Keep up with the latest issues and don’t ever stop learning. Brush up on your leadership and your decision-making skills so that these will take your where ever you want to go.

Moment two wild lynxes hold a bizarre stare-down in Canada


  • Two North American Lynxes were recorded staring each other down in a road
  • The animals are so caught up it the stand-off that they are oblivious to the car  
  • They make bizarre screeching and wailing sounds during the territorial dispute

Stewart Paterson For Mailonline

Two territorial lynxes were so caught up screaming at one another that they were completely oblivious to the car behind them.

The animals were recorded producing bizarre wails and screeches as they stared each other down in the middle of a road. 

Just like domestic house cats, the two male lynxes were filmed sizing each other up during the territorial dispute. 

The North American Lynx is native to the country of its namesake and Canada. 

The animals were recorded…



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Jann Wenner really blew it with Rolling Stone


Jann Wenner has landed between a rock and a hard place as he struggles to sell Rolling Stone.

The 71-year-old publishing magnate will pay dearly for clinging to the rock-and-roll magazine he founded 50 years ago, sources told The Post, as prospective buyers have evaporated along with music fans’ habit of buying glossy print titles at newsstands.

“Jann knows he made his mark on American culture already and he is a realist,” said author Joe Hagan, whose biography on Wenner, titled “Sticky Fingers,” is set to hit next month from Random House.

“The landscape has changed and he was not able to navigate through it.”

Time Inc. and Condé Nast are in cutback mode and not interested, with the latter apparently content to operate its Pitchfork music website, insiders say. Hearst, which had held talks to buy Rolling Stone a decade earlier, is also out of the running,…



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Jessica Marais hints at moving into reality television


She’s the star of two hit TV shows Love Child and The Wrong Girl.

But Jessica Marais has now set her sights on reality TV, with the 32-year-old actress telling The Sunday Telegraph she would ‘never say never’ to appearing on I’m A Celebrity…Get Me Out Of Here!.

‘I am interested in who human beings are and human behaviour and I think that it would be pretty fascinating to do,’ Jessica said of I’m A Celebrity…Get Me Out Of Here!.

‘It would be pretty fascinating’: Love Child’s Jessica Marais, 32, revealed an interest in reality series I’m A Celebrity…Get Me Out Of Here! in The Sunday Telegraph

‘You would learn so much about yourself. I’m not putting my hand up for it, but never say never.’

Should she be cast on the program, the actress admitted she would not know how to cope.

‘I’d be awful. If you took my food away, I’d be angry.’ 



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